tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1060250020509162205.post8952918585190757989..comments2024-01-08T15:43:45.267-08:00Comments on The Bergham Chronicles: New Leaf #BlogWithFriendsJules Bhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01898444410326979902noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1060250020509162205.post-70163931797472621202019-01-12T01:40:16.602-08:002019-01-12T01:40:16.602-08:00You are a great mom, so don't beat yourself up...You are a great mom, so don't beat yourself up on that one too much. And when GiGi is grown, what she is going to remember more than any one thing is that she always knew she was loved. The yelling? We all do that. <br /><br />My Daddy has been gone almost 13 years. I miss him just as much as I did on the day he left us. It does get easier, but it took me 2 years to not cry every day. So don't be hard on yourself and don't rush it. Just don't. Southern Belle Charmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03702427718177589292noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1060250020509162205.post-58119191966338230822019-01-07T09:52:04.623-08:002019-01-07T09:52:04.623-08:00These are wonderful goals and I have no doubt that...These are wonderful goals and I have no doubt that you'll try to meet them. I do worry about the "better mom" one, I think you focus too much on what you feel you aren't doing right and not enough time on what you are. Karen BakingInATornadohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04908944310611937600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1060250020509162205.post-1702135262330997322019-01-07T08:36:39.045-08:002019-01-07T08:36:39.045-08:00Give yourself time as far as your dad is concerned...Give yourself time as far as your dad is concerned. My Daddy passed 5 1/2 years ago. I'm okay now, but it took a long time. I still miss him but now I smile when I think of him instead of cry. you'll get there, there is no time line on grief and everyone processes it differently. Which is perfectly okay. If you find it is especially difficult, find someone to talk to, a counselor, priest, doctor...and that's okay too.<br />Well wishes on your list of changes. I have my own list as well and not resolutions, these are MUST do things.<br />Cheers to a better, brighter 2019!Dawnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03215542444229937948noreply@blogger.com