tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1060250020509162205.post8425847067580208427..comments2024-01-08T15:43:45.267-08:00Comments on The Bergham Chronicles: Goals and a Diagnosis... Secret Subject Swap January 2015Jules Bhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01898444410326979902noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1060250020509162205.post-15073145157634344232015-01-17T16:45:45.042-08:002015-01-17T16:45:45.042-08:00If you would not mind, I would love to hear how yo...If you would not mind, I would love to hear how you treat your Lupus. That is the stage I am at. Deciding on treatment. I would love to hear first hand experiences. I am sorry you have Lupus. Knowing why things are happening is definitely a good thing. I have extreme pain, deficiencies, hair loss, memory issues, blood clots, etc etc It is definitely an intense disease. I am so sorry you are dealing with it, but you definitely don't let it get you down! That is awesome! <3 Rock it, we shall!!!!Jules Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01898444410326979902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1060250020509162205.post-8814295604346062282015-01-17T16:42:52.343-08:002015-01-17T16:42:52.343-08:00I am definitely not going to let it end my word. I...I am definitely not going to let it end my word. I just also hope I don't let it hinder my world. I know it will, I just hope I am able to keep it to a minimum! Thank you so so so much! Yes, you definitely know! You are a very strong woman! Jules Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01898444410326979902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1060250020509162205.post-67676516215769038852015-01-17T16:41:18.252-08:002015-01-17T16:41:18.252-08:00I definitely think goals are the way to go. I thin...I definitely think goals are the way to go. I think simply because people tend to stick to goals, more than they stick to resolutions. I know I do. I am hoping I am strong. Super strong! I guess when you have to be, you have to be. Jules Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01898444410326979902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1060250020509162205.post-46391251924858461592015-01-17T16:39:14.088-08:002015-01-17T16:39:14.088-08:00Thank you so much!!!
I am normally SUPER organized...Thank you so much!!!<br />I am normally SUPER organized. I drive some folks nuts. Now, I am what I guess is considered normal. I have battled with health issues the past few years, and it has really made me unable to maintain my normal levels of organization. Normally, I have everything in my house in order, and I maintain that order. I do everything. I don't mind, because then I know it is all done the way I like. I am grateful and very lucky, to be able to say, Chad has taken the responsibility of most things over. He does fabulous. Better than most men I know. Just not quite the way I like it. My goal is to suck it up, ignore the pain, and just get it back the way I want and need it to be. Then, maintaining it should be a lot easier.Jules Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01898444410326979902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1060250020509162205.post-25330665723158065322015-01-17T16:34:47.923-08:002015-01-17T16:34:47.923-08:00Thank you so much!!! Love and light right back to ...Thank you so much!!! Love and light right back to you!!!<br /><br />I do so much writing, that will probably NEVER be shared with anyone else. I also do some, that doesn't get shared, but there is no real reason it couldn't be shared. My goal is to share more of it. I also want to create more, and go into more detail on the challenge posts. Once I get my life 100% in order, and I create a space for myself to write it, I feel all of that should just fall into place. My fingers are crossed!!! I am looking for to your future (deeper) blog posts!!!Jules Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01898444410326979902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1060250020509162205.post-78130208638471505502015-01-17T16:31:52.947-08:002015-01-17T16:31:52.947-08:00Oddly... the answers the diagnosis granted me, all...Oddly... the answers the diagnosis granted me, allowed me to be quite at peace with it. I am still struggling a little bit with knowing that there is no cure. In my optimistic mind, all these years, I thought a day would come that I would be all better. My only other struggle is Weewee. She will never know what it is to have a completely healthy mom. I feel she deserves so much better than what she is getting! Who knows.... maybe she will grow up and be inspired to discover the cure for Lupus! Thank you!Jules Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01898444410326979902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1060250020509162205.post-54989223055847220582015-01-17T16:29:21.431-08:002015-01-17T16:29:21.431-08:00I so agree. I am perfectly fine with not being per...I so agree. I am perfectly fine with not being perfect! Would I like to be a bit better than I am? Certainly. There is always room for improvement! Thank you! I can use all the good vibes I can get! Hugs!Jules Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01898444410326979902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1060250020509162205.post-82327705181332805122015-01-17T16:27:27.200-08:002015-01-17T16:27:27.200-08:00Thank you! I have always been decent at kicking bu...Thank you! I have always been decent at kicking butt. LOL So, hopefully this is no different. The one thing that brings me down, is that Weewee will never have a normal mom. A mom that can function 100% at all/most times. That makes me sad for her. I feel she deserves so much better. I plan on being the absolute best abnormal mom that I can be.Jules Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01898444410326979902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1060250020509162205.post-73994964715059063572015-01-17T16:20:09.440-08:002015-01-17T16:20:09.440-08:00You most definitely understand me! The knowing rea...You most definitely understand me! The knowing really does help. With the knowing also comes the disappointment. I also now know that there is no cure, and I am unable to utilize most of the treatments. Of the treatments I am able to utilize, they aren't the best. They have yucky side effects. I will (most likely) never be cured. It is definitely a double edged sword!!! I am so sad to hear you have fibromyalgia. I have up close experience with that, and I know how awful it is. I will pray for you extra lots. Hopefully, we will get cures for all these awful illnesses one day!!! HUGS HUGS HUGS HUGS!!!Jules Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01898444410326979902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1060250020509162205.post-5594718009580694312015-01-17T16:16:49.923-08:002015-01-17T16:16:49.923-08:00Thank you! I try to always stay positive! I know, ...Thank you! I try to always stay positive! I know, no matter how hard life gets, there are other people that have it far worse. Just knowing that simple fact, really helps me to stay positive! Jules Bhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01898444410326979902noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1060250020509162205.post-13648555068854141562015-01-09T16:56:10.652-08:002015-01-09T16:56:10.652-08:00Jules I"m sorry to hear that, I too have Lupu...Jules I"m sorry to hear that, I too have Lupus and it was a relief to find out WHY I was having all these issues, like memory loss. VERY frustrating. Vitamin deficient, weight loss are all on my radar. I understand.<br />Thank you for sharing and I hope this year you find a balance. Let's rock it girl.Dawnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03215542444229937948noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1060250020509162205.post-57500978945852650152015-01-09T15:10:07.968-08:002015-01-09T15:10:07.968-08:00I have every faith in you - you can achieve all th...I have every faith in you - you can achieve all that and more! Finding out you have an incurable disease can be the end of the world, but it doesn't have to be. I would know! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09843346724790750894noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1060250020509162205.post-71500624930872695532015-01-09T13:19:55.361-08:002015-01-09T13:19:55.361-08:00I'm not a resolutions person either. At the en...I'm not a resolutions person either. At the end of the year I tend to reflect on how I've grown and where I need work and strive to improve, but that's not really a resolution that I set and give up on within a month. Goals are far more admirable. Good luck with kicking lupus' ass. I knew a few people with it when I worked in pharmacies and they tended to be some of the strongest people I've met :)Jenniy Frenchhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04902332589392779881noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1060250020509162205.post-24042608562807386442015-01-09T11:22:13.857-08:002015-01-09T11:22:13.857-08:00As someone said to me, if anything about you chang...As someone said to me, if anything about you changed, it would change the essence of you and you wouldn't be you. So flaws and all, well I can live with that.<br />Sending healthy thoughts your way. <br />And when you get organized, share it with me! Need it badly these daysSouthern Belle Charmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03702427718177589292noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1060250020509162205.post-36940238608809428552015-01-09T10:12:25.489-08:002015-01-09T10:12:25.489-08:00Jules love how you approached this prompt!
First,...Jules love how you approached this prompt!<br /><br />First, love and light to you ❤<br /><br />Embracing all of ourselves including our flaws is a beautiful thing. It allows us to learn and be a better person. I feel you about 'taking up the blog a notch'. One of my goals is to post more of what I write and get a little deeper.http://sparklyjenn.blogspot.com/https://www.blogger.com/profile/13009219818894631938noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1060250020509162205.post-79925253541643378832015-01-09T10:11:23.028-08:002015-01-09T10:11:23.028-08:00As sorry as I am that you have Lupus, I'm so g...As sorry as I am that you have Lupus, I'm so glad to see you strive to make peace with it. I know you'll do everything you can to be as happy and healthy as you can be.Karen @Baking In A Tornadohttp://www.bakinginatornado.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1060250020509162205.post-33289240277137712482015-01-09T08:06:14.811-08:002015-01-09T08:06:14.811-08:00oh no...(HUGS) and sending positive and healthy vi...oh no...(HUGS) and sending positive and healthy vibes your way. I agree with you, nobody is perfect...I prefer being weird, odd, and "me". Being perfect is way too boring and whoever sets the rules for perfection would not like me so why waste my time. karenhttp://dinoheromommy.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1060250020509162205.post-67206476765919738622015-01-09T07:56:21.924-08:002015-01-09T07:56:21.924-08:00I don't set resolutions either. I know what I ...I don't set resolutions either. I know what I want to accomplish and starting at the beginning of the year instead of when I decide to do it doesn't work for me. I hope you and your doctors can get kick Lupus's butt and you can lead a normal life.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04722121053927567807noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1060250020509162205.post-1682691088517411312015-01-09T07:24:23.084-08:002015-01-09T07:24:23.084-08:00Wishing you lots of luck to hit all of your goals!...Wishing you lots of luck to hit all of your goals!!!! <br />I understand what you mean about the relief of a diagnosis. That's how I felt after finding out that I have fibromyalgia. At least now I know why now. Then there's the other side of that. The part where there is no cure and the treatments don't work for most people. It's definitely a doubled edged sword. <br />HUGS HUGS HUGS!!!!stacy sews and schoolshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15198826873257277836noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1060250020509162205.post-8065009992470134352015-01-09T07:23:19.263-08:002015-01-09T07:23:19.263-08:00You've got a great attitude which will help yo...You've got a great attitude which will help you achieving your goals!Tamarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06945984135731336978noreply@blogger.com